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Re: Raising a Complete Man

annaresa — Fri, 29 May 2009 15:23:45 -0000

Very well written. You should be commended for doing what so many parents - father and mother - will not.

Re: In Three Parts, 2

AngelaMichelle — Thu, 14 May 2009 19:23:12 -0000

interesante...

Re: Random Updates, Part 1

reign4aday — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 09:06:55 -0000

I don't know what happened, but this was supposed to post the other day. I just realized it was in my recent drafts.

Re: In Three Parts, 2

A_NYRican — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 07:23:43 -0000

Hmmm, only word is appropriate here... Wow!

Re: In Three Parts 1

A_NYRican — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 12:42:43 -0000

The vividness of this memory leaves me breathless. I hope that many who read this post have had the pleasure to experience such connectedness in the own lives and are still with that person. As for you, if for any reason you cannot connect with that person, I hope you find someone who you can bond spiritually with soon. You deserve to be loved.

Re: New Blogging Project: In My Skin

Medela — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 13:20:57 -0000

Some people have different perceptions when it comes to this question, but I don't agree with people that say men always look at women sexually! I know plenty of my close friends(men) that do not even talk to women!

Re: New Blogging Project: In My Skin

Gwanyca — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 00:02:47 -0000

I think that all men look at women..if they find them attractive they are going to look lol now do I think that if it were up to a man to choose a smaller girl over a bigger girl then I definitely think the smaller girl has a chance. I mean that's why most women go on diets because society says that is what's beautiful and so men go along with that.

Re: New Blogging Project: In My Skin

Azalea — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 13:30:25 -0000

I think men look at all women but not always sexually. I fall in a thick category not skinny nor fat in between. But everyone has their own large opinions so it explains why the conversation went on so long (smh)

Re: New Blogging Project: In My Skin

Simplyrik — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 16:42:43 -0000

Yes... Interesting indeed

Re: New Blogging Project: In My Skin

Lonely Buddy — Tue, 17 Feb 2009 07:58:21 -0000

this is gonna be interesting lonely buddy. Cant wait to see more

Re: Sleep Achieved

reign4aday — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 10:28:08 -0000

I know! We have spent a lot of time plurking with and around each other after hours. I hope it has gotten better since the new edition :)

Re: Sleep Achieved

reign4aday — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 10:26:49 -0000

I have been trying various things actually. Nothing will be a permanent fix until I can slow my mind down at night. I go into this overdrive and can't slow my thoughts, "The Noise." It just keeps getting louder and louder.

Re: Sleep Achieved

reign4aday — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 10:22:27 -0000

LOL too bad the sleep only lasted the one night. I seem to get enough sleep now every few days, but nothing near what it should be.

Re: Sleep Achieved

Shannon — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 09:24:47 -0000

LOL. I suppose liquor would do it. I have sleeping troubles myself which sucks being as though I have to work so early in the morning. I'm still adjusting.

Re: Sleep Achieved

Gwanyca — Sun, 15 Feb 2009 11:15:14 -0000

I know what you mean about the lack of sleep. I cannot sleep to save my life no matter how long I sleep I'm still tired! And I wake up easily. I remember my mom used to slip a little something something in our sippy cups to get us to go to sleep. We were out like a light. You ever try a sleeping pill?

Re: Sleep Achieved

Olivia — Sat, 14 Feb 2009 00:41:57 -0000

It's good you stopped the heavy drinking. And w00t! for a good night's sleep.

Re: Unsent Letter

Lynne — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 14:54:51 -0000

WOW...The crazy thing is, while reading this almost from the very first few words...I felt as if this was something that was coming from a very fresh unclosed chapter in my life! This was a very touching to me...thank you for sharing it...Writing is such a good way of expressing emotions that you somwtimes just can't put into vocal words...

Re: Another Night, The Noise

A_NYRican — Sun, 01 Feb 2009 19:14:39 -0000

The sleeping could be a combination of both - something bothering you plus the fact that you have changed your sleeping pattern by sleeping during the day. But since you are getting such a small amount of sleep, the naps are good.

LOL, I'm surprised myself! On the call, the hours and the talk. But I am loving the surprise.

Ahh, the noise. While it is difficult to quiet the noise and get moving to where you want to go remember this, my friend. You have succeeded before that means you have the strength to shut down the noise and move on to bigger and better. The noise is there to confuse you for now but you will find your center and the way. It is in you to succeed because you have the power, the strength and determination to do so even if you don't see or believe it right now.

Re: Needy

A_NYRican — Fri, 30 Jan 2009 21:56:08 -0000

Thank you both for the compliment.

I had a great time as well. And yes, I guess I do always get the giggles when I am with you. It could be because you are special even if you don't think so.

Re: Needy

Simplyrik — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 00:30:49 -0000

Tanya does rock. Oh and by the way, it ain't greedy to be needy sometimes.

Re: 4:17am

Jenifer — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 12:22:34 -0000

You know you can talk to me if you want. But we both feel the same, so I understand.

Re: Thank you

Simplyrik — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 20:45:48 -0000

She sounds wonderful

Re: Finding My Center

simplyRik — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 07:51:16 -0000

Its interesting, but reading this I connected with all of the emotions that you describe above after losing my job last February. Interesting thing is that as fast as you emerge into it it takes a while to crawl out. Hang in there man. You'll be fine!

Re: My year in review

Angel — Thu, 01 Jan 2009 04:11:32 -0000

I think it's great that through all that's happened to you in 2008 you are still trying to find ways to better yourself. I don't know you very well or for very long but I do sense that you have great things in store for 2009.

Re: I never thought

reign4aday — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 20:55:28 -0000

She is still around. Just thought she was playing before. She just texted me, right before I received the notification for this comment. I don't know where this is going or even if it will go any further. Right now, we are friends and getting to know each other. She also realizes that this is very new for me and is giving me the space to explore myself and anything else I need to.

She even recognizes I have other friends and interests and is not getting funny about it. She just wants me to be happy.