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Re: http://zandr0x.tumblr.com/post/10779787682

Tina! — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 22:59:32 -0000

hahahaha this cracked me up! MSG is so good because it is bad for u, duh. it's okay, when you come back to chicago I will have whole foods chips ready for you and hopefully that way you'll stop missing those silly crackers

Re: Raising a Complete Man

Sibby — Thu, 02 Dec 2010 14:12:19 -0000

When I read this a week ago, All I could say was wow. For the simple fact it takes a strong man, To carry weight on his shoulders and take care of a child whom he must learn how to raise on his own.
Granted, the mother is not in his life, But to have grown so opulent to his surrounding is amazing. For the things you can not teach him, understand that it is going to take outside forces to give that helping hand.
For example, I am sure as you grew up, The things your parents couldn't teach you, the outside world had to teach you. People like your closest friends, your first love, and your opening door to education and working. Those are the bonds that teach you and hold you down as a man as well.
Take into consideration that no one in this world has the answers to everything. If we did, I believe life would be so much easier. But for the mean time we have to deal with what has been dealt to us.
This post was lovely, and continue to be the good man and father that you have always been. and remember, in case scenarios such as this, others have no say or opinion. Because it is your life, but their entertainment.

Love,
Sibby

Re: I Can Still Feel…

Sibby — Thu, 02 Dec 2010 14:01:43 -0000

I simply love how this was written. Least to say, in my opinion you do control who comes in and out of your life. For the simple fact of the matter, society is changing everyday we open and close our eyes.
As for the new person within your life, If you choose to keep her, then by any means necessary do so. if you feel a person belongs within your life, then keep them. People don't always control every aspect of your life. Yes we learn from them. but we do not necessarily have to keep them their if we don't want to. we can simply push them in or wheel them in as much as possible.
Life is so ambiguous sometimes, because we can't always have or find the answers to our questions or concerns. But we can keep walking under that tunnel until we see a clear path.
As for the infuser, remember that this infuser is like a person as well. They can only provide us with so much. but never assume that a person is leaving. If they keep coming back it is for a simplistic reason.
your heart can never go cold. Metaphorically speaking, no matter how many times you throw ice on it or drown it in a cold item, It is up to you on whether you want to stay like that forever. I don't believe living a cold life is worth the stress or ache.
Never give up. For your life is still rolling like a captured camera. So let it play out and in due time you will see how everything goes. Their is a beginning and an end.

Love,
Sibby

Re: Distance

Name — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 17:36:52 -0000

Oh thats nice!!

Re: Raising a Complete Man

annaresa — Fri, 29 May 2009 15:23:45 -0000

Very well written. You should be commended for doing what so many parents - father and mother - will not.

Re: In Three Parts, 2

AngelaMichelle — Thu, 14 May 2009 19:23:12 -0000

interesante...

Re: Random Updates, Part 1

Deon — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 09:06:55 -0000

I don't know what happened, but this was supposed to post the other day. I just realized it was in my recent drafts.

Re: In Three Parts, 2

A_NYRican — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 07:23:43 -0000

Hmmm, only word is appropriate here... Wow!

Re: In Three Parts, 1

A_NYRican — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 12:42:43 -0000

The vividness of this memory leaves me breathless. I hope that many who read this post have had the pleasure to experience such connectedness in the own lives and are still with that person. As for you, if for any reason you cannot connect with that person, I hope you find someone who you can bond spiritually with soon. You deserve to be loved.

Re: New Blogging Project: In My Skin

Medela — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 13:20:57 -0000

Some people have different perceptions when it comes to this question, but I don't agree with people that say men always look at women sexually! I know plenty of my close friends(men) that do not even talk to women!

Re: New Blogging Project: In My Skin

Gwanyca — Sun, 08 Mar 2009 00:02:47 -0000

I think that all men look at women..if they find them attractive they are going to look lol now do I think that if it were up to a man to choose a smaller girl over a bigger girl then I definitely think the smaller girl has a chance. I mean that's why most women go on diets because society says that is what's beautiful and so men go along with that.

Re: New Blogging Project: In My Skin

Azalea — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 13:30:25 -0000

I think men look at all women but not always sexually. I fall in a thick category not skinny nor fat in between. But everyone has their own large opinions so it explains why the conversation went on so long (smh)

Re: New Blogging Project: In My Skin

simplyRik — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 16:42:43 -0000

Yes... Interesting indeed

Re: New Blogging Project: In My Skin

Lonely Buddy — Tue, 17 Feb 2009 07:58:21 -0000

this is gonna be interesting lonely buddy. Cant wait to see more

Re: Sleep Achieved

Deon — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 10:28:08 -0000

I know! We have spent a lot of time plurking with and around each other after hours. I hope it has gotten better since the new edition :)

Re: Sleep Achieved

Deon — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 10:26:49 -0000

I have been trying various things actually. Nothing will be a permanent fix until I can slow my mind down at night. I go into this overdrive and can't slow my thoughts, "The Noise." It just keeps getting louder and louder.

Re: Sleep Achieved

Deon — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 10:22:27 -0000

LOL too bad the sleep only lasted the one night. I seem to get enough sleep now every few days, but nothing near what it should be.

Re: Sleep Achieved

Shannon — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 09:24:47 -0000

LOL. I suppose liquor would do it. I have sleeping troubles myself which sucks being as though I have to work so early in the morning. I'm still adjusting.

Re: Sleep Achieved

Gwanyca — Sun, 15 Feb 2009 11:15:14 -0000

I know what you mean about the lack of sleep. I cannot sleep to save my life no matter how long I sleep I'm still tired! And I wake up easily. I remember my mom used to slip a little something something in our sippy cups to get us to go to sleep. We were out like a light. You ever try a sleeping pill?

Re: Sleep Achieved

Olivia — Sat, 14 Feb 2009 00:41:57 -0000

It's good you stopped the heavy drinking. And w00t! for a good night's sleep.

Re: Unsent Letter

Lynne — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 14:54:51 -0000

WOW...The crazy thing is, while reading this almost from the very first few words...I felt as if this was something that was coming from a very fresh unclosed chapter in my life! This was a very touching to me...thank you for sharing it...Writing is such a good way of expressing emotions that you somwtimes just can't put into vocal words...

Re: Another Night, The Noise

A_NYRican — Sun, 01 Feb 2009 19:14:39 -0000

The sleeping could be a combination of both - something bothering you plus the fact that you have changed your sleeping pattern by sleeping during the day. But since you are getting such a small amount of sleep, the naps are good.

LOL, I'm surprised myself! On the call, the hours and the talk. But I am loving the surprise.

Ahh, the noise. While it is difficult to quiet the noise and get moving to where you want to go remember this, my friend. You have succeeded before that means you have the strength to shut down the noise and move on to bigger and better. The noise is there to confuse you for now but you will find your center and the way. It is in you to succeed because you have the power, the strength and determination to do so even if you don't see or believe it right now.

Re: Needy

A_NYRican — Fri, 30 Jan 2009 21:56:08 -0000

Thank you both for the compliment.

I had a great time as well. And yes, I guess I do always get the giggles when I am with you. It could be because you are special even if you don't think so.

Re: Needy

simplyRik — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 00:30:49 -0000

Tanya does rock. Oh and by the way, it ain't greedy to be needy sometimes.

Re: 4:17am

Jenifer — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 12:22:34 -0000

You know you can talk to me if you want. But we both feel the same, so I understand.