DISQUS

DISQUS Hello! I Don't Know is using DISQUS, a powerful comment system, to manage its comments. Learn more.

Community Page

I Don't Know

Jump to original thread »
Author

I’m a Flirt!

Started by Deon · 9 months ago

This will be my first true cross post.
I just got me a new one torn. Admittedly, I was wrong. I didn’t realize how out of hand things had gotten. At one point, I didn’t thing I was being taken seriously, now I know different. Problem is, I may have lost two of the b ... Continue reading »

3 comments

  • Janelle

    11 months ago

    You are exactly who I thought you were.

    Janelles last blog post..Anton Ziegler
    reply
  • Vera

    11 months ago

    Hey, hey, hey there, cowboy! You have recognized what you did and admitted it for all the world to see. Believe it or not, most of us have done the same at some point or another. Attention is a heady thing, especially when it is coming from someone you are drawn to. When two someones pop up at the same time, that is pretty intoxicating so we keep flirting to see what will happen, not necessarily realizing that we are flirting with danger. Someone can get hurt when they take someone serious while they are still in flirt mode. So now you know. You will be wiser next time and more cautious. You will be ok. After you have apologized to them, the next best thing you can do is to forgive yourself -- forgive but don't forget the lesson you have learned. Whatever happens, it will be ok.
    reply
  • simplyRik

    11 months ago

    It is always a good thing, good/bad/indifferent, when a man is confident enough in himself to search his soul and understand who he is as a person. The fact that you, like I, know you are a flirt is a good thing. In this case, things went too far. This might not be because you are a flirt, but to me sounds more like a breakdown in communication.

    An understanding of the playing field before entering. Most times, we never open up enough and share who we really are. We are always trying to be what that other person wants us to be. We enjoy the others company and don't want to lose that. IN doing so we paint an inaccurate image of who we really are. Time passes and maybe, just maybe misunderstandings develop.
    reply

Add New Comment

Returning? Login